Find A Meeting
ACA WSO Website Working Wonders!!!Just had an experience these last 2 days of registering a couple of new meetings on the WSO adultchildren.org meeting list and what a pleasant surprise.Check it out!!!It was all taken care of in a matter of a day or so. There have...
The Disconnection
We are in the self check-out line, he was waiting for me to finish, his little girl- maybe 5? -by his side.She says "Daddy can we get this popcorn?" He is staring vacantly into space, looking angry- it seems well worn, the angry look, as if he puts it on every...
Letter To My Inner Parent
(NOTE: I wrote this in response to the assignment on page 22 of the Loving Parent Guidebook) Dear LP, You have ushered in an era of dynamic equilibrium in my life, and what I mean by that is this: By teaching me the possibility of going deeper into a heart that...
Letter From The Board Of Trustees Chair
Dear fellow adult child, For the third straight year, ACA is holding its Annual Business Conference virtually. In January, we had to cancel a planned in-person meeting in San Francisco, when yet another COVID-19 surge threatened our ability to host a safe and...
Toni’s Poems
Incest Trilogy
(The following includes content that some may find offensive or disturbing).
Dancing Myself home
(The following includes content that some may find offensive or disturbing).
Why Am I Here
To receive a blessing, like Jacob wrestling with the angel.a blessing for my elder years, these years of letting go. To receive the wisdom of the teachers, those teachersthat I didn’t recognize, hiding in the corner, silent,the ones who didn’t seem to have too much to...
Is Texting Part Of The Solution
One of the tools referred to in The Solution is The Telephone. Technology has changed “the telephone” to texting, email, voicemail, as well as one-on-one conversation. Texting is convenient, quick and efficient, but is it part of the Solution? For me, I try to text...
What Is a Group Conscience
Decision-making in ACA takes place through a process called Group Conscience. This process involves allowing each member to be heard and proceeding slowly. This avoids issues of drama, excitement, or controlling behavior, all of which may affect the outcome. Group...